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Natalie Anne's avatar

Totally agree with being a private minded person. Yes, we share our thoughts here but a lot of the times it’s easier to keep things to ourselves, that’s why I won’t let my family subscribing to my blog (they probably couldn’t bother😂😂). But this blog is my private space and my way of coping whatever is going on in my mind and life. Sometimes it’s also nice to be anonymous in a way where I’m sharing my inner thoughts to the internet, and yet people will have no idea I wrote these as I walk on the streets. Keeping things private and in your mind sometimes set you free. Happy birthday!!

euge forcher's avatar

Thank you so much for this. I'm 34 and every word resonates deeply, it's so nice to know you're not alone. PS: Happy birthday ✨

Epsita's avatar

Wish you a belated happy birthday, Michelle! This was a lovely piece. And wishing you the best in your career! 🫶

Michelle's avatar

Thank you so much Epsita, it always means so much to see your name spring up! Hope you're well ❤️

Epsita's avatar

Aww thank you for the sweet message, Michelle! I have been doing well, hope you are too. ❤️

Venezia's avatar

Thank you for this!! Happy birthday! Thank you for being on this platform and sharing your self each year

Michelle's avatar

Thank you so much Venezia!! Grateful to have you here ❤️

amandine bula's avatar

Happy birthday Michelle! I hope you had the loveliest day <3

Your birthday posts always feel a little special to me. It was your reflections at 33 that brought me to Substack. I had been standing on the sidelines for a long time, just observing and hesitating, and then something in your article made me want to give it a go. And every year, your birthday post makes me smile.

I feel more like myself these days and more connected to who I am, yet I still have doubts from time to time. Reading your thoughts reassures me and somehow validates where I am, even though I am two years older than you. So thank you, truly, for sharing pieces of yourself with us and for creating a space that feels like a gentle conversation with a friend ☺️

Michelle's avatar

Thank you Amandine!!

It's so lovely to hear these posts are how you came to Substack. I can't even fully remember what drove me to write that piece, but I'm glad it brought us together online. And, yes, I'm glad that as I get older I'm more reassured by myself. Tuning out the noise helps a lot; I spend so much time just with myself and it's for the better.

Michelle's avatar

Thank you so much Frieda! It means so much to me to see your name pop up under my posts!

Aliena's avatar

Happy birthday Michelle! 💓

Michelle's avatar

Thanks so much Aliena!

Izzy | The Sunday Reads's avatar

Happy birthday Michelle 💗 cheers to being you and spreading your joy!!

Michelle's avatar

Thank you Izzy, you kind soul~!

Bernice Kuang's avatar

Happy birthday! The sun came out in Southern England for you today!!! Hope there is some cake in your very near future 💕

Michelle's avatar

Thank you so much Bernice!! I found some birthday tiramisu, the best way to celebrate!

Bernice Kuang's avatar

By the way, I didn’t by any chance see you at a bar in Cheltenham last weekend did I?!?

Michelle's avatar

Nooo that wouldn’t have been me!

Riza's avatar

Happy birthday, Michelle! Wishing you all the best in this lovely day. Hope you know how much I appreciate you and your writings. 🥰

Michelle's avatar

Thank you so much Riza!! I appreciate YOU for always showing up here! It means so much! x

sofia falck's avatar

Happy birthday! Your writing truly feels like spending a Sunday with a friend. Hope you have a great day! ✮

Michelle's avatar

Thanks Sofia! Ahhh that is the loveliest compliment!

Soph's avatar

Happy happy birthday lovely Michelle!! I hope you have the best day. Loved this read, and I love seeing you grow each year ❤️

Michelle's avatar

Thanks my angel!!

alyssa!'s avatar

HEAVY on the swiftie one

Michelle's avatar

Riiiight?!